Most of us react to situations in out lives, rather than create the life we want. A favorite saying of mine is; “The people who don’t have any problems are all over there in the cemetery, the rest of us are in our workshop.” We can all improve our lives with more dynamic responses, they are not hard to learn, but it is a process. An example would be, if we go out on a date and it is rather awkward, we tend to say,” Whew! … that was bad, I’m not doing that again.” With many unpleasant experiences, this seems to be a common response. “I’m not doing that again.” And yet, since the brain doesn’t hear not, we are actually setting ourselves up for the same scenario again. Over and over as I work with people, I am shown repeat patterns, flawed and alcoholic mates and lovers, dead end jobs, problems with children, the things we want to avoid most, we innocently reprogram into our lives … until we learn.
My reading sessions are frequently not as much, about what is going to happen, as they are about what could happen. The future, love money, career, really depend on how you play “The Game of Life”. Any reading is the probable outcome of the path we are on. When people ask me questions about their future, the answer isn’t always simple. Which future are you talking about? … the path you are on, or the path you could (probably should), be on. Often, they are quite similar in content, but very different in their reality. Personal Angels, Guides, and Loved Ones often direct me to an understanding of peoples problem patterns. This is often why those on the other side choose to direct their charges to psychics and especially mediums. Sometimes the appreciate verbal communication when they need to make a point. With their help it is possible to show clients effectively how to re-program their future to a more meaningful direction. Think about it, usually that is the job of Angels and guides, especially Loved Ones. Sometimes it is challenging, even for Angels, to help people see their true path and rise above the labyrinth in their daily lives. It is not terribly difficult to change a life pattern, but it often happens with my clients. This has to be a process. I can tell you what is going to happen on the path a client is on, but also, how to begin to create a better life.
Imagine if you will, life being a little like an electronic game, when you begin to develop a little proficiency, the board speeds up. Only sometimes the board speeds up anyway after you play the game a while. Then the board becomes complicated, but the player hasn’t developed much proficiency, and the game becomes quite difficult. Once we begin to “see”, we can begin to readjust the pattern of our lives. There are many things on our path that will remain the same. However. once the path itself changes, and we develop tools to get through difficult times, we are able to create more happiness, success, prosperity and in general, a more meaningful life.
What a great outlook on life that I hadn’t really thought of before.