I am descended from a medium, my great grandmother was Olive Cross Wiley, who saw lights at the end of the bed when someone was going to die. A part of my awareness is to see, know and talk to those Loved Ones who have crossed to the Other Side. It isn’t my job to solve crimes, or answer everyone’s questions. Part of my work is more about helping with a clients grief process, sending lost souls to the Light and removing attachments. Many of my clients come to me, often through efforts of a Loved One from the Other Side, who for whatever reason, has brought them to me. Those Loved Ones expect me to help relieve a family members grief, to enable them to go on to a meaningful life existence.
I often begin to have a developing dialog with the decedent as soon as I hang up the phone. I quiet my mind, to hear or see what this being is trying to communicate to me. Usually they just want the connection and I don’t get details then. Sometimes people come to me with a list of questions, wanting me to prove that I am actually connecting with their Loved One. What a tragic waste of time. Agendas change dynamically on the Other Side, on this side I don’t work with anyone who doesn’t trust me at the beginning. Then I do my best to comfort, relieve and aid those in deep grief.
Sometimes, in hypnosis a client can connect with their Loved One themselves, or sometimes they are so busy trying to manage the situation, that it impossible for them to go into a light hypnotic state. Personally I can take a person there, I do many times, that’s never the issue, it’s more about can a person let go and open their mind and heart to the opportunity?
I had a a grieving mother come to me about 18 months ago. When she came in she said to me; “My daughter died two months ago. I don’t know where she is and what she does every day.” My heart went out to her.. She trusted me and went into hypnosis easily. In hypnosis she was able to feel and see her daughter. I knew this would be very helpful to her. Her question, however, so innocent and heartfelt, gave me a strong desire to do as much for her as I could manage. I had previously had long talks with my friend Jeff (a Spirit from the Other Side), so I knew quite a bit about the Light. I had also managed to take two clients through to the Light itself on different occasions, so I knew it could be done. I just didn’t know if this grieving mother could manage this process. I told her to ask her daughter if she could just step through into the Light, so she could understand things a little better. Her daughters response was cautious, and so was hers when, I asked her if she just wanted to step in the Light. Then I directed her daughter to take her hand and lead her to the Light for just a minute or so. I was psychically watching carefully, ready to stop things any second. The mother got to the light and looked in, but wasn’t able to go any further. She looked around carefully, as is my habit in 3 minutes, I brought her back and then up from the hypnosis. She opened her eyes and looked clearly at me. The grief has lessened greatly, her eyes were calm and she looked at me and said; “Thank you!”
I knew she would have to process the grief, but would never again be tormented and worried, she knew her daughter was safe and okay. There is no way to put a value on this, I certainly can’t do this with everybody or make any guaranties. But this time, it was the most I could do, I did my best, and it was enough. I am Blessed and grateful at these times.
It is not always so easy with ghosts and attachments. It is my understanding that a ghost is a being, once human, who has an awareness, but hasn’t gone to the Light. They appear to be in a limbo where they continually deal with the unhappy situation just prior to or involving their death. A demonic attachment has probably never been human, although there might be exceptions. Dealing with those who haven’t gone to the Light can be a challenging experience. Though thousands of years of service and devotion to their people, tribe and their Spirits, Medicine people, men and woman have dealt with this phenomena, usually quite successfully. These experiences are real, and some can be quite nasty. I frequently have to do Spirit Releasement, and sometimes even exorcisms. Releasements are not usually difficult, but do take a clear head, sometimes a psychic eye, and strong determination. Exorcisms are nasty, mean, challenging and I dislike them very much. Usually the subject of an exorcism has turned into an almost totally dysfunctional person. Then, I have to remove a nest of demonic beings, I find them in three’s, five’s, or seven’s. It is a case of getting them to understand they have no choice they must leave, and that even they are beings of Light … and so it goes.
More to come, Darlynn